Since my college days, romantic movies have become a fountain of pleasure for me. Always striving to be introspective, over these years, I’ve heard numerous stories about my friends’ intricate relationships, and they have optimaized my realization of love.
For me, I think relationship can be encapsulated in four differnet layers, where as the layers ascend, the purity and the longevity of ralationship rise gorgeously.
The base layer is the relationship that is born because we need someone’s company. This aspect is built on “solitude” and is the most incongruous relationship.
The second layer is define as the relationship with appreciation. Sometimes we adore each other’s appearances, talents, or personalities and really like them.
This layer is base on “admiration”, it might be an ephemeral blossom, utimately becoming moribund after the recession of fervour.
The third layer is the relationship that treat each other with tenderness and affection and take care of each other with kindness and treasuring. When we enter into a third-layer relationship, the foundation is “love”. It is an augest, altristic condition which some people may not even realize its spirit.
So, people might be perplexed about the forth layer, what can trenscend “love” supremely?
In my opinion, the top layer is the relationship that other beneficantly bring us incessant improvement, and we also eagerly seek to elevate others with authenticity. We never put others on a pedestal but grasp each other’s hands to pursue the path of comsummation. In the forth layer, it is a dynamic state that base on astornomical felicific intimacy and can evolve with times and realities.
Many people worder whether there is fate in love, yet we all still need to find love, understand love, and embrace love. Is love a infinite, powerful flow, or just a dust in the galaxy? Before time disperses, hope everyone can grab the fantasy and find the true siprit of a meaningful relationship.